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  })();</description><title>Having a Ball Having it All</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @havingaballhavingitall)</generator><link>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/</link><item><title>NPR wants to hear from women - what’s a piece of advice...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/9f1e7df5b04158a8a007acdd1dd49b10/tumblr_mmeg3bTlof1rks8q7o1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;NPR wants to hear from women - what’s a piece of advice that’s helped you at work? &lt;a href="http://she-works.tumblr.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Add to their Tumblr blog&lt;/a&gt;. (This is tied to their series on the &lt;a href="http://www.npr.org/series/177622347/the-changing-lives-of-women" target="_blank"&gt;Changing Lives of Women&lt;/a&gt;.)&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/49807998611</link><guid>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/49807998611</guid><pubDate>Mon, 06 May 2013 19:04:23 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"Should we automatically assume that the woman running the company is doing more with her life than..."</title><description>“Should we automatically assume that the woman running the company is doing more with her life than the woman who has negotiated a three-day week?”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt; Mary Louise Kelly in &lt;a href="http://www.thedailybeast.com/newsweek/2013/03/11/when-the-sheryl-sandberg-approach-fails.html?source=socialflow&amp;account=newsweek&amp;medium=twitter" target="_blank"&gt;The Daily Beast&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/45269810322</link><guid>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/45269810322</guid><pubDate>Wed, 13 Mar 2013 11:16:46 -0400</pubDate><category>career</category></item><item><title>"Far from having it all, most working women live in danger of losing it all"</title><description>“Far from having it all, most working women live in danger of losing it all”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt; &lt;a href="http://billmoyers.com/groupthink/the-feminine-mystique-50-years-later/50-years-later-not-nearly-enough-progress-for-working-class-women/" target="_blank"&gt;Ellen Bravo&lt;/a&gt; on BillMoyers.com&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44887889932</link><guid>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44887889932</guid><pubDate>Fri, 08 Mar 2013 17:27:31 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Beyond Sheryl, Marisa and Lena</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/roiphe/2013/03/backlash_against_sheryl_sandberg_and_marissa_mayer_why_do_we_hate_powerful.html"&gt;Beyond Sheryl, Marisa and Lena&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;What if instead of flaming the media circus around Sheryl Sandberg, Marisa Mayer and Lena Dunham, we told stories about powerful women who aren’t already in the spotlight? And what if we measured power by, say, compassionate action, instead of executive status and salary?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44868741354</link><guid>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44868741354</guid><pubDate>Fri, 08 Mar 2013 12:31:35 -0500</pubDate><category>power</category><category>Powerful Women</category></item><item><title>"…Women with any sort of success or advantage are supposed to be self-deprecating."</title><description>““…Women with any sort of success or advantage are supposed to be self-deprecating.””&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/roiphe/2013/03/backlash_against_sheryl_sandberg_and_marissa_mayer_why_do_we_hate_powerful.html" target="_blank"&gt;Why Do We Hate Successful Women?&lt;/a&gt; on Slate.com&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44868162653</link><guid>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44868162653</guid><pubDate>Fri, 08 Mar 2013 12:21:13 -0500</pubDate><category>career</category><category>success</category><category>Sheryl Sandberg</category><category>Marisa Mayer</category></item><item><title>The first Having a Ball Having it All live show was on Friday,...</title><description>&lt;iframe class="tumblr_audio_player tumblr_audio_player_44707998985" src="http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44707998985/audio_player_iframe/havingaballhavingitall/tumblr_mj8vp7X9Oo1rks8q7?audio_file=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.tumblr.com%2Faudio_file%2Fhavingaballhavingitall%2F44707998985%2Ftumblr_mj8vp7X9Oo1rks8q7" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" scrolling="no" width="500" height="85"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;The first Having a Ball Having it All live show was on Friday, and all in attendance did, indeed, have a ball. Listen in on my opening monologue, in which I get into character as Melody Bell, the perfect woman, and talk about phone calls with Beyonce, breast feeding my kids til they’re 6, rehabilitating llamas in Africa and so much more…&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44707998985</link><guid>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44707998985</guid><pubDate>Wed, 06 Mar 2013 10:15:00 -0500</pubDate><category>audio</category><category>monologue</category><category>live show</category></item><item><title>Can you get naked and still have it all?</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&amp;#8220;&lt;span&gt;Attacking Judd for her nude scenes is part and parcel of the right’s current strategy to discredit promising female advocates,&amp;#8221; says Think Progress in &lt;a href="http://thinkprogress.org/alyssa/2013/03/04/1665011/theatrical-slut-shaming-daily-caller-attacks-ashley-judd-for-movie-nude-scenes/?mobile=nc" target="_blank"&gt;this article&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44558203266</link><guid>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44558203266</guid><pubDate>Mon, 04 Mar 2013 15:11:35 -0500</pubDate><category>famous ladies</category><category>politics</category><category>ashley judd</category><category>nudity</category></item><item><title>Having a Ball Having it All: the theme song. Written by Jordan...</title><description>&lt;iframe class="tumblr_audio_player tumblr_audio_player_44301965415" src="http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44301965415/audio_player_iframe/havingaballhavingitall/tumblr_mizsjjWL0z1rks8q7?audio_file=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.tumblr.com%2Faudio_file%2Fhavingaballhavingitall%2F44301965415%2Ftumblr_mizsjjWL0z1rks8q7" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" scrolling="no" width="500" height="85"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Having a Ball Having it All: the theme song. Written by Jordan Hirsch, performed by yours truly. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Show tonite at 9:30 - &lt;a href="http://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/343728?date=793524" target="_blank"&gt;details and tix&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44301965415</link><guid>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44301965415</guid><pubDate>Fri, 01 Mar 2013 12:28:31 -0500</pubDate><category>theme song</category></item><item><title>Live Show Tonight!</title><description>&lt;p&gt;Funny ladies like Aparna Nancherla and Meghan O&amp;#8217;Keefe weigh in on what it means to &amp;#8220;have it all&amp;#8221; tonight at 9:30! &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://bpt.me/e/343728%20" target="_blank"&gt;Details and tix&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44298037050</link><guid>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44298037050</guid><pubDate>Fri, 01 Mar 2013 11:08:45 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>"Every woman I know who feels like she “has it all” — and there are many — has done it in a unique..."</title><description>“Every woman I know who feels like she “has it all” — and there are many — has done it in a unique way.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt; &lt;a href="http://pandodaily.com/2013/02/25/in-this-corner-theres-sheryl-sandberg-in-this-corner-theres-anne-marie-slaughter-and-then-theres-reality/" target="_blank"&gt;Sarah Lacy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44147911776</link><guid>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44147911776</guid><pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2013 12:16:01 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Seth MacFarlane is a Boob.</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.newyorker.com/online/blogs/closeread/2013/02/seth-macfarlane-and-the-oscars-hostile-ugly-sexist-night.html#ixzz2Lwl1wLMC"&gt;Seth MacFarlane is a Boob.&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;At a moment when Sheryl Sandberg, the Facebook chief operating officer, talks about &lt;a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2013/02/22/us/sheryl-sandberg-lean-in-author-hopes-to-spur-movement.html" target="_blank"&gt;how women have to “lean in” in the workplace&lt;/a&gt;, Seth MacFarlane pops up from behind to say, “So we can see your boobs.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- The New Yorker&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44004294280</link><guid>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44004294280</guid><pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2013 15:59:00 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Oscar Analysis</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class="userContent"&gt;Michelle Obama: has it all + bangs. Quvenzhané Wallis: can&amp;#8217;t quite have it all &amp;#8216;cause she&amp;#8217;s only 9, but she&amp;#8217;s well on her way. Renee Zellwegger: has all the botox. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44002998543</link><guid>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/44002998543</guid><pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2013 15:42:00 -0500</pubDate><category>oscars</category><category>movies</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/b85ae0db40090177a80c49c5c2ccdc5a/tumblr_mi85ichBAy1rks8q7o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/43089640852</link><guid>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/43089640852</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Feb 2013 14:15:47 -0500</pubDate><category>salary</category><category>career</category><category>books</category></item><item><title>If women can have it all, why are they still angry?</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.nytimes.com/roomfordebate/2013/02/12/if-women-can-have-it-all-why-are-they-still-angry"&gt;If women can have it all, why are they still angry?&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;A roundtable discussion hosted by NYTimes columnist Gail Collins.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/43014372060</link><guid>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/43014372060</guid><pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 13:46:10 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>In Nordic countries, men and women can both have it all.</title><description>&lt;a href="http://blogs.hbr.org/cs/2013/02/where_both_parents_can_have_it.html"&gt;In Nordic countries, men and women can both have it all.&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;That settles it: I’m moving to Sweden.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/42928503957</link><guid>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/42928503957</guid><pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2013 10:58:29 -0500</pubDate><category>policy</category><category>gender</category><category>nordic</category><category>sweden</category></item><item><title>This is it, folks — the Having a Ball Having it All live...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/2af1194379a0600d4fba719f8e04b0c6/tumblr_mi2p1dCcNC1rks8q7o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is it, folks — the &lt;strong&gt;Having a Ball Having it All&lt;/strong&gt; live show, featuring &lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="fsl"&gt;a stellar lineup of hilarious lady-folk from the tee-vee, the interwebs and the NYC live theater scene. One night only. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Friday, March 1st @ &lt;a href="http://thetanknyc.org/" target="_blank"&gt;The Tank&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="fsl"&gt;Hope to see you there!&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/42862558894</link><guid>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/42862558894</guid><pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 15:32:01 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>"As she told GQ, she feels more complete now. “Giving birth made me realize the power of being..."</title><description>“As she told GQ, she feels more complete now. “Giving birth made me realize the power of being a woman,” she said. “I have so much more substance in my life.” But also: “I love my job, but it’s more than that: I need it.” The menagerie of stylists, managers, assistants, and nannies who make it all possible aren’t foregrounded. After all, this is part of having it all: pretending you didn’t have to break a sweat to do so.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.newrepublic.com/article/112214/beyonces-message-women-can-have-it-all#" target="_blank"&gt;Beyonce’s Message: Women Can Have it All &lt;/a&gt;(New Republic)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/42023778647</link><guid>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/42023778647</guid><pubDate>Fri, 01 Feb 2013 10:09:26 -0500</pubDate><category>beyonce</category><category>celebs</category><category>motherhood</category><category>don't break a sweat</category><category>career</category></item><item><title>"Bad data in equals bad data out. Algorithms that dating sites have spent millions of dollars to..."</title><description>“Bad data in equals bad data out. Algorithms that dating sites have spent millions of dollars to refine aren’t necessarily bad. They’re just not as good as we want them to be, because they’re computing our half-truths and aspirational wishes.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.brainpickings.org/index.php/2013/01/31/amy-webb-data-a-love-story/" target="_blank"&gt;Love in the Age of Data&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt; – how one woman hacked her way to happily ever after (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://exp.lore.com/" target="_blank"&gt;explore-blog&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/41958071473</link><guid>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/41958071473</guid><pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 13:56:06 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>"‎You don’t have to get a job that makes others feel comfortable about what they perceive as your..."</title><description>“&lt;p&gt;‎You don’t have to get a job that makes others feel comfortable about what they perceive as your success. You don’t have to explain what you plan to do with your life. You don’t have to justify your education by demonstrating its financial rewards. You don’t have to maintain an impeccable credit score. Anyone who expects you to do any of those things has no sense of history or economics or science or the arts.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;You have to pay your electric bill. You have to be kind. You have to give it all you got. You have to find people who love you truly and love them back with the same truth. But that’s all.&lt;/p&gt;”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Cheryl Strayed (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://poco-cocoa.tumblr.com/" target="_blank"&gt;poco-cocoa&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/41957842999</link><guid>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/41957842999</guid><pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 13:51:58 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>How Grandmothers Help Us Have it All</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.newrepublic.com/article/112199/genetics-grandmothers-why-they-exist"&gt;How Grandmothers Help Us Have it All&lt;/a&gt;</description><link>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/41794668679</link><guid>http://havingaballhavingitall.tumblr.com/post/41794668679</guid><pubDate>Tue, 29 Jan 2013 12:58:08 -0500</pubDate><category>grandmothers</category><category>grandparents</category><category>family</category></item></channel></rss>
